His Truth, Her Truth, and THE Truth

His Truth, Her Truth and THE Truth. Marriage counseling can be tricky business sometimes. People come in with the idea that the counselor will be a mediator or negotiator for their arguments. Boy, is that a wrong idea! One thing I have learned in marriage counseling...

Fight Fire with Fire…or Not?

Fight Fire with Fire…or Not? When fighting fire with fire, remember that firemen use water. When I first read this truism, I thought, “That’s funny.” But, then I thought about the deeper meaning of it, the life application. Let me tell you a story. About 24 years ago,...

An Oil Change, Ten Years, and Stubbornness

An Oil Change, Ten Years, and Stubbornness (You guessed it…a story for guys.) I had a really difficult time last time I changed my oil. I just couldn’t get the oil plug to budge, and it didn’t help that the bolt head was stripped a little from the previous oil change...

I Am Continually With You

I have a framed picture in my office of my favorite aunt and my daughter holding hands and walking out into the ocean surf. I love this picture for a couple of very different reasons. First, because my daughter looks so much like me, it reminds me of times when I was...

Bearing the Fruits of The Spirit

Bearing the Fruits of The Spirit Galatians 5:22-23 How often do we as individuals inspect our performance?  Whether it’s assessments in school, personal evaluations, or sales numbers, we tend to measure success, growth and progress with hard, numerical data.  It was...